"The Bachelor" Engagement Rings

Last week, the season finale of 'The Bachelor' showed Jake proposing to Vienna with a stunning two carat princess cut diamond ring surrounded by 70 smaller diamond stones. Last season's Bachelorette, Jillian, was given a two carat pear shaped diamond masterpiece. Jason Mesnick gave both women diamond rings set in platinum, each at approximately two carats. Anyone else notice an ongoing theme? Since its first debut in 2002, dedicated viewers have witnessed 11 proposals in 19 seasons, many of which consisted of 2 carat beauties. It appears that 'The Bachelor' has set a new standard for diamond engagement rings at approximately two sparkling carats in diamond studded platinum settings.

Grammar School

In honor of National Grammar Day, I believe we should honor one of the world's 100 most commonly misspelled words: jewelry. Often times, people like to throw in an extra vowel (darn that 'e') as found in the word jeweler. There is also a common switcheroo with the "l" and the "e" turning this word into jewlery (mazeltov!) The good news is that no matter how you spell it, all jewelery jewlery JEWELRY is fabulous!

Feed your 'Apatite'

Apatite gemstones are a rarity to the general public, but a beautiful treasure to discover. It is a softer stone, usually unsuitable for rings or bracelets, but perfect in a colorful pair of gemstone earrings. When craving rich colors, apatite can definitely fulfill your needs in a vibrant variety including pink, green, yellow, violet and blue. It earned its Greek name meaning "cheat" or "deceive" from accidentally fooling people into thinking it a more valuable stone like tourmaline or topaz. That's not to say this stone is inexpensive. Just like any gemstone, the more intense the color, the more valuable the stone and the higher the price increases.

"Carat" Cake

A Dallas bakery is setting a new record for expensive tasty treats. They have designed a diamond and sapphire encrusted wedding cake designed to feed 320 guests. This nine tier cake features over 1,200 carats (and no, we definitely don’t mean the vegetable) costing over 1 million dollars. This staggering figure means each guest will receive a $3,125 slice of diamonds and confectionary bliss. The designers at Delicious Cakes Bakery believe this will inspire future brides and give them something to dream about: Matching your dazzling diamond necklace to an equally decadent wedding cake.

WeekEND Valentine's Day Poses Special Challenge

This year, Valentine's Day lands on a Sunday. The bad news is that this is not a great night for romance. The good news is that you can be creative and start celebrating the weekend before, or continue the celebration into the following weekend. Valentine's Day is a perfect holiday to celebrate with a gift of jewelry. It is a lasting token of your love for one another. If you've been married many years, this might be a good time for a trip together to your favorite jeweler to redesign her engagement ring. Or maybe even to add two major diamonds to her original ring to create a three-diamond anniversary band. Whether you are single or married, anything from a simple pair of earrings to an engagement ring surprise will be cherished forever.

February's Birthgem is a Royal Classic

Traditionally, Russia has been the most important source of natural amethyst. But today, most of this beautiful purple gem is found in Brazil. Transparent pale lilac to deep purple, amethyst is the birthgem of February and has also become a popular choice for Valentine’s Day gifts as well. This beautiful gem is often found in large sizes that are absolutely clear of all internal flaws. While affordable, it has been the choice of royalty throughout the ages. It was a favorite of Catherine the Great of Russia, and is prevalent in the crown jewels of London. Amethyst is in the coronation regalia of England, in the king’s scepter, and in the coronet of the Prince of Wales. For a taste of royalty yourself, consider the purchase of your own personal royal purple jewels.

Choosing a Favorite Ring

Most of us have favorite clothes that we tend to wear often, mostly because they’re comfortable — and we look best in them. These are the same criteria that apply when shopping for a ring. Rings should feel comfortable and look good. Many people lose sight of this simple fact when they shop for jewelry. Never choose a ring that is so large on top that it approaches your knuckle, or so wide beneath that it’s uncomfortable. To make your fingers look longer, choose designs that point up and down the hand, rather than side to side. If your fingers are long, or your hands are on the larger side, don’t choose a ring that is so small that it only emphasizes the size of your hand.

The Sparkle of Diamonds in Motion

Diamonds sparkle as a result of their interaction with light. If you want to enhance the sparkle of your diamonds, add movement. Each time you move, your diamonds pick up light from new and different angles and sources. While you can make a point of waving your arms and twirling around, a more practical and sane approach is to choose jewelry styles with movement. Dangling earrings, hinged pendants, diamond-studded hanging links and charms all add to the glitter and sparkle. Consider multiple bracelets or bracelets with diamond-set charms. There are also many three-diamond designs that have movement. This is a great time to either reset your existing diamonds or to choose entirely new pieces to enhance your jewelry wardrobe. Give your diamonds movement and go ahead and enjoy the beauty and brilliance.

Good Quality Jewelry Is Beautiful Inside and Out

When you’re shopping for a piece of jewelry, part of your decision is emotional — what catches your eye. Most of us have an idea of what we like once we see it. But to be a careful shopper, there is a more intellectual approach that you should use as well. Once you’ve chosen a piece of jewelry that strikes your fancy, examine it. Turn it over in your hands and look at it and touch it both from the top, and especially on its backside. Jewelry that is well made will be just as finely finished on the back as it is on the top. Run your fingers over prongs. Feel for sharp edges or for any roughness. Once you’ve satisfied both your emotions and your intellect, it’s time to make a purchase!

Three-Diamond Jewelry Celebrates the Past, Present and Future

You’ve probably noticed the newfound popularity of the three-stone diamond anniversary band. You might even own one. People have been very touched by the special meaning of this gift. Each of the three diamonds symbolizes the past, present or future of a loving relationship. Designers have been busy applying this symbolic and beautiful concept to other significant pieces of jewelry — to necklaces, bracelets, earrings and pins. Perfect for a special gift this holiday season, a three-diamond piece of jewelry is an ideal gift whether you wish to enhance an already existing piece of jewelry, or if you want to choose a design right from the showcase. Three-diamond jewelry makes for a gift that can be as touching and sentimental as it is beautiful.

Setting Diamonds in Yellow or White

Whether you prefer a yellow-gold, white-gold, or platinum ring for your diamond, the choice is mostly one of aesthetics — which looks the best or appeals to you the most. The choice of prong color is another matter. If your diamond is white or colorless, your setting should also be white. A yellow prong or bezel setting would make your colorless diamond appear to take on a yellow tint. If your choice is a yellow-gold ring, simply have the diamond mounted in a white-gold or platinum “head setting.� The white prongs will show your diamond off to best effect. However, if your diamond has a noticeable yellowish tint, choose a yellow-gold head setting. Your diamond will appear to be whiter in contrast to yellow of the setting.

Choosing Earrings to Highlight your Face

If you’ve been thinking about a new pair of earrings, here are some guidelines to help you choose the right style. Take a look in the mirror and check out the basic shape of your face. If it is round, choose angular or geometric-style earrings — drop or oval — that draw the eye down from the ear. If you have a square jaw, you can soften the look with oval and marquise-shaped earrings. If you have a rectangular face, choose a round earring like a large button or a horizontal-designed hoop. If you have a heart-shaped face with a tiny chin, wide hoops, triangles and buttons will complement your look. The perfect oval face looks good with all of the above. But in all cases, try them on and see the effect for yourself.

Jazzy Garnet Has a Colorful Edge

Most people think of the deep red gem popular in Victorian jewelry when they visualize garnet. But the fact is that January’s jazzy birth gem occurs naturally in greens, yellows, oranges, and in just about every color of the rainbow but blue. The name “garnet� is derived from the Latin “granatus,� which translates to “seed-like.� This is because garnet crystal in rock resembles pomegranate seeds. If you’re looking for more than style from your jewelry, consider this. In ancient times, garnet was “known� to promote sincerity and stop hemorrhaging, and also to cure inflammatory diseases — and curb anger. Not bad for a beautiful gem that is also considerably less expensive than like-quality emerald or ruby! Whether it is an anniversary or birthday that you are celebrating, garnet jewelry makes a wonderful gift.

The Secret of What Makes White Gold White

One of the fashion trends that has continued to stay popular for the last several years is white metal jewelry. Platinum, silver and white gold are up-front and fashionable. Many people ask about the origin of white gold — as in, what exactly is it? All gold is mined in its pure form, which is 24kt. Because 24kt is too soft for most practical jewelry wear, gold is generally mixed with alloys, or other metals, that both increase its toughness and optimize its color. Eighteen karat gold is 75% gold, 25% alloy, and 14kt gold is 58.3% gold. The alloys used to create white gold are nickel or palladium, zinc and copper. If you haven’t yet added white gold jewelry to your fashion wardrobe, why not consider something in a yellow and white combination, to blend well with your existing jewelry.

Special Looks for Men This Holiday Season

Jewelry is a great choice for men this holiday season. In fact, masculine jewelry has become more popular than ever these past few years. Business suits, or at least respectable business casual, have totally replaced the grungy look of the late 90s. With this change of style has come a renewed interest in jewelry. Cufflinks are hot again, and men — both young and more mature — are wearing them. White is the popular metal choice, with white gold, silver and platinum leading the charge. Forget the loud style of rapper “bling.� The current look is subtle, yet bold, with many men choosing thick, angular bracelets. Another trend to note is that more men are choosing wedding bands set with a row of diamonds. It’s a smart and rich look for today’s married guy.

What Do You Do with a Solid Gold Toilet Seat?

Inspired by the writings of Vladimir Lenin, and to depict the opulent excesses of capitalism, a few years ago a Hong Kong jeweler created a solid gold toilet seat, along with what must be a pretty darned impressive bathroom. The $4.9 million room has become something of a Hong Kong attraction. Shoppers can use the facilities if they make any purchases equivalent to $138 or more. It kind of makes you wonder if this is what Lenin had in mind, or if the jeweler is truly concerned about “excessive opulence.� After all, what is jewelry about if not about adornment and enjoying the beauty and ownership of a truly magnificent item? While your restroom facilities might not be as lavish, we are committed to making you feel pampered and important with all of your jewelry purchases.

Taking Care of Your Jewelry After the Purchase

A lot of people are much more careful when they’re buying their jewelry than they are once the purchase is made. This is a mistake. Your fine jewelry is an investment that will give you a lifetime of pleasure and it deserves some special attention. Remove your jewelry before doing heavy house or yard work or playing sports, but don’t simply toss it on your dresser top or counter, where they are easy to lose or misplace. Have a special storage place that is out of the reach of young children and pets. Avoid obvious jewelry boxes in your master bedroom, as this is the first place thieves look when they break into your home. Choose instead a more unusual location, such as your basement, or a family room or kitchen cabinet.

Put Comfort and Quality First When Jewelry Shopping

It’s just a matter of philosophy, but when it comes to jewelry — just as when it comes to clothing — it is always best to put comfort and quality ahead of style. When you think of it, you are probably most comfortable in the clothes you don’t have to adjust or think about. It works the same way with your jewelry. Your rings should fit perfectly with no sharp edges; your earrings should look beautiful and feel invisible — no weight, no discomfort. Ditto for your bracelets, necklaces and your watch. When choosing a piece of jewelry, check all clasps for ease of use and for comfort. Ultimately you will wear and enjoy — and get the best value from — a fine piece of jewelry that is as comfortable as it is beautiful.

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Choosing the Right Necklace for Your Wardrobe

If you’ve been considering a new neckchain, necklace or pendant, you might want to give some thought to your wardrobe before you make a purchase. The necklines you wear have everything to do with what length necklace to choose. The general rule is to contrast your neckline with the length of your necklace. For example, choose a long necklace to contrast your turtleneck sweater, rather than letting it peek out the top of your collar or slip back inside. When wearing a scoop neckline, choose a necklace that fits well within the neckline for the most attractive look, whether with a pendant or perhaps a string of pearls. There isn’t one length that will go with everything, so it is best to have an assortment of jewelry to work with all the necklines in your wardrobe.

Hot To Travel With Fine Jewelry

A question I’ve been asked many times is what is the best way to travel with fine jewelry There are two answers. Most reputable hotels will store your fine jewels in their safe. This is a practical solution if your jewelry is too formal to wear for daytime. The second solution is to wear only that jewelry that is versatile enough for both daytime and evening wear. If you travel often, you might consider treating yourself to some new jewelry that fits the bill. This way you don’t have to worry about leaving your valuables with a stranger — or worse yet, unattended in your hotel room. If you want to have a different look with your travel outfits, consider taking along some less expensive beads, earrings or even scarves.

Topaz is Enduring Golden and Blue Gift of November

Topaz, the birthstone of November, used to be most popularly known as a golden-yellow gem. In ancient times, most golden-yellow stones were called topaz. In fact, topaz occurs naturally colorless, as well as in orange-yellow, red, honey-brown, light-green, blue, and pink hues. In recent years, blue topaz, most the result of irradiation and heat treatments, have become an extremely popular and affordable gem. It was most likely named from the Sanskrit word topas, for “fire.� The ancients used powdered topaz in wine to cure asthmas, insomnia, burns and hemorrhages. The gem was historically said to bring fruitfulness, faithfulness, and to prevent bad dreams. Blue topaz is the official gift for the 4th year of marriage, and Imperial golden topaz is the official 23rd anniversary gift.

Why Gemstones Remain Valuable Year after Year

If you keep up with the news, now and then you hear about new diamond and gemstone finds around the world. Someone somewhere is always stumbling on a new source. If this ever makes you wonder why these gemstones remain rare and valuable, here is why. Gems may be more plentiful now then they have ever been in the history of mankind. But the happy truth is that as technology has expanded our access to natural gems, demand for precious gems in the U.S. — and around the world — has kept pace with the growing supply. It wasn’t that long ago that only the extremely wealthy could afford gifts of fine jewelry. Even though precious gems and metals are still rare, today they are still within the reach of many “ordinary� people.

Platinum Shows Much Beauty, Little Wear

Beautiful, lustrous platinum has skyrocketed in popularity over the past few years. And there is a reason for it. Aside from its undeniable beauty, platinum is the strongest precious metal. It is wise to set your diamonds and other precious gemstones in platinum prongs or setting, because platinum shows little wear, giving your stone the the greatest protection possible. Platinum is extremely dense, weighing 60% more than an identically-sized piece of karat gold jewelry. It is also hypoallergenic because, in the US, it is ninety to ninety-five percent pure. Couple this with the fact that it is so elegant and fashionable, it is easy to understand its growing popularity. Some of the world’s most famous diamonds have been set in platinum, including the Hope, the Koh-i-Noor, and the Jonker Diamond Number One. Try on a piece of platinum jewelry, and you can actually feel the difference.

Diamond Cut Is Much More Than The Shape of The Stone

Diamond “cut� is one of the important four “Cs� that make up the value of a given diamond. When we think of “cut’ we think of round, marquise, baguette, pear, heart-shaped, etc. But that is just the beginning. Have you ever noticed that some diamonds sparkle more than others? This is because the closer a diamond is cut to ideal proportion, the better it will bend light within the gem and send it back out to your eye, in the form of dazzling color. Unfortunately, to preserve weight, some diamonds are cut either too shallow or too deep. Light leaks out the back of these gems, rather than pleasing the eye. When you are ready for a diamond, ask to see your intended stone in comparison with others, before you make your purchase. When you see it dazzle before your eyes, you’ll know it’s the right choice.

The Mystery of the Diamond Stud Earring

There is no mystery about why certain jewelry items are classic. You will see them in jewelry stores ten years from now, just as you would have seen them 10 years ago (back in the 1900’s). One such classic is the diamond stud earring. What a wonderful investment! This is a piece of jewelry that will look just as lovely and in fashion at a 50th wedding annivesary as it will at the 10th. Not only that, these earrings are comfortable — and they look just as at home at a gala event as they do in the supermarket. With qualities like this, no wonder they are “classic.� To keep your diamond stud earrings sparkling clean, soak in a commercial jewelry cleaning solution, brush, rinse well and pat dry with a clean, soft cloth.

Holding On to Diamonds and Gems

How your diamonds and beautiful colored gemstones are held in place have an important affect on the security — and look — of your jewelry. We’re all familiar with the four- or six-prong settings. Other important settings are the bezel, which surrounds your stone with a metal edge, giving it a sleek, modern look — and protecting it from damage. The flush setting encompasses more of the gem than the bezel. Flat-top stones are set so that only the table or top facet is level, or flush, with the setting. In the channel setting, a single row of small stones is held together by two bands of gold or platinum. However your gems are set, be certain to bring them in at least once a year for a professional checkup and cleaning.

October's Opal is the Most Unique Gemstone on Earth

Possibly the most unique gem on earth, opal displays every color of the rainbow — and all at the same time. Renowned gemologist Dr. George Kunz describes opal as having the “wonderful and varied play of color . . . of a bright October day in the country, when earth and sky vie with each other in brilliancy and the eye is fairly dazzled with the bewildering variety of color.� The birthgem of October and also the official anniversary gem for the 14th year of marriage, opal has traditionally been the gem of inspiration in the arts and in love. Queen Victoria had a prized opal collection and gave opal as a gift to each of her five daughters. Treat your opal jewelry carefully and protect it from damage and extreme temperature changes.

Boomers Graduate to Bold, Daring Ring Designs

There are some advantages to growing older! Baby boomers might be embarrassed about joining AARP, but most don’t have any problem with their increased spending ability, especially when the kids are through with college and their earning ability continues to grow. This one fact of life coincides with another. It happens that mature women look terrific in bold, stylish rings set with substantial, colored gems, or studded with an impressive array of matching diamonds. There’s platinum. There’s gold. And there are a multitude of styles. If you’re a boomer and you’ve been wearing a thin gold band, it’s time to be daring and wild, and try on a new ring that can make a beautiful statement about where you are — and what you’re about — at this time of your life.

Diamonds Are Forever – But It Pays to Have Them Periodically Checked and Cleaned

Everyone knows that diamonds are forever. And it’s true. These beautiful gems can withstand wear and tear and be passed on generation after generation. But don’t let this give you a false sense of security. Diamonds are forever, but gold prongs are not. Even durable platinum prongs must be checked occasionally for wear — to make certain that your diamond doesn’t come loose, or even fall out and disappear! Also, while diamond is hard and durable, it can be chipped or cracked if knocked at just the right angle. After all, if diamond was invincible, there would be no way to cut and polish diamond rough into the dazzling gems we love. So play it safe. Remove your diamonds when playing sports or when using harsh chemicals that can harm your mounting.

Getting Rid of Smudge Marks on Gold Rings

If you’ve ever had a problem with a gold ring that creates a black smudge effect on your finger, you might think that there is something wrong with the ring – or with your finger. Well neither is the case. It happens that the alloy metals mixed in with the gold in your ring can react to cosmetics and/or to humidity or smog. Fortunately, there is a way to prevent this problem. The solution? Simply wash your hands after applying makeup — and before putting on your jewelry. Whether it is cosmetics or smog or humidity that is the culprit, it is a good idea to clean your jewelry often — even every day, if necessary. A happy side effect is that you’ll enjoy wearing your jewelry even more when it is sparkling clean.

More Brides Choosing Fall Wedding Dates

Summer is not the only time for brides anymore. At least not according to the National Bridal Service. They report that the most important wedding months are in the fall through August, October, June and September. And one-third of the estimated 2.4 million brides and grooms are going down the aisle for a second time, with the average age of 29 for the bride and nearly 32 for the groom. Because they have waited longer for this day, the bride and groom are more particular about what they want in their wedding. And because most engagements last an average of 14 months, they have plenty of time to plan. A good jeweler can help with many of the important decisions — from the engagement ring and wedding bands to the attendant and bridesmaid gifts.

How Long is Too Long? Choosing Necklaces by Length

If you’re thinking of buying a necklace or pendant — here are some guidelines to help you make the right choice. Consider the height of the woman, her bone structure, and of course, her sense of style. The petite woman, who stands 5’3� or less, looks best wearing necklaces of collar length or longer, as chokers tend to look like a line that minimizes height, while longer and “V� shaped necklaces tend to emphasize height. Women of the average height of 5’4� to 5’7� tend to look good in any necklace or pendant design. Tall women look great in anything from chokers to beads or chains that fall below the waist. A simple rule is that full figured women can carry off large vivacious styles, while small-boned women look best with delicate designs.

“Business Casual� Criticized by Retailers

There has been a trend toward casual business dress in this country over the last several years, and it is growing amidst mixed reviews. Proponents claim that people work more efficiently when comfortable. Detractors feel that people work best when dressed for success. An employment law firm undertook a survey revealing that 44% of respondents noticed an increase in tardiness, absenteeism and on-the-job flirtation. While most of the respondents were in the retail clothing business, an industry with a vested interest in business suit sales, there is something to dressing for success. For men and women, the right jewelry can help bridge the gap between casual and professional. Something as simple as a diamond-line bracelet on a woman, or a substantial ring or bracelet on a man, can help you maintain a successful look while wearing comfortable clothing.

Green Diamond Sets Auction Record

A 1.73ct old-mine-cut fancy diamond of a vivid yellowish-green hue sold a few years back at a NY auction house for $886,000, a record selling price for a diamond of this color. While diamonds of this size and unique color make news, it is also true that every diamond is unique, and can set your own personal record. If you have been wondering what you could do to make this a holiday season that you will both remember always, consider trading up her engagement diamond for one of a larger size and weight, and perhaps of a higher quality. Or if you want to simply enhance the diamond that holds much sentimental value for the two of you, consider a three-diamond anniversary band, which adds two major diamonds on either side of her original stone.

August: The Month of Pirates and Peridot

The favorite of pirates, and worn as an amulet against all evil, peridot is the birthgem for August and the official gift gem for the 16th anniversary of marriage. It was mined for over 3500 years on the volcanic island of St. John in the Red Sea, and is also mined today on an Apache reservation near Globe, Arizona. The crusaders first brought peridot to Europe during the Middle Ages, where it found its way into magnificent cathedrals — where they were mistakenly presented as emerald. Because of its beautiful brilliant green, peridot was sometimes called the “evening emerald.� The best qualities of peridot are lively and free of any brownish or olive coloring. Peridot can be so brilliant, in fact, that it flashes even in dim light.

Evaluating Pearl Luster for Dummies

If you’ve recently browsed a bookstore, you most likely came across the “Dummy� and “Idiot� books. When it comes to evaluating jewelry, a lot of people might feel inept, but there are a few things you can learn to judge without being a rocket scientist or even a gemologist. When examining the luster of pearls, for example, compare strands side by side, and look for a difference in surface shine and brilliance. The best are highly reflective, and the worst are dull and chalky in appearance. Keep in mind that the origin of pearls can dictate their luster. Pearls from Japan and Tahiti tend to have the best surface luster, while pearls from the South Seas of Australia, Indonesia and the Philippines can be quite valuable even with a softer more muted surface.

It’s Red, White and Blue for Independence Day

July is the month of red, white and blue — the official colors of our flag and of Uncle Sam. Did you know that there is no documented proof that Betsy Ross created the first American flag? Not only that, but there is documented proof that there was a real, live “Uncle Sam,� an upstate New York meat-packing-plant owner. His packages were stamped “U.S.� for the United States, but as his nickname was “Uncle Sam,� the initials, and the man himself, evolved into a symbol of our country. It happens that rubies, diamonds and sapphires match these colors of patriotism. Whether you choose to wear them as a patriot or if you simply enjoy their breathtaking color and dazzling beauty, you can be assured that you are wearing a classic treasure.

Ruby is July’s Red-Hot Birthgem

Ancient Hindus called ruby the “king of precious stones.� They believed that a gift of ruby to the god Krishna guaranteed becoming an emperor in the giver’s next life. Bright, red ruby was named for its beautiful color “rubeus,� Latin for “red.� In fact, ruby varies from a purplish or bluish red to a yellowish red. The finest ruby is a vivid, almost perfect red with a very slight undertone of blue. Until 1800, all red gems were called ruby. At that time ruby, along with sapphire, was identified as belonging to the corundum group of gemstones. The ruby is a very hard gem, second only to diamond. As the birthgem of July, ruby is a symbol of love, passion and contentment. It was believed to support friendship and ensure beauty.

Sapphires Work Well as Engagement Stones

Sapphire was the choice of Prince Charles as his engagement gift to Diana. And it is an excellent choice as this gem is both breathtakingly beautiful — and tough enough to hold up to daily wear. In the Asian tradition, sapphire was said to ward off evil omens and bring good fortune. This gem, most popular in deep blue, is of the mineral group corundum. All red corundum is by definition ruby. All other colors are sapphire. The word “sapphire� alone indicates the beautiful blue we are accustomed to. All other sapphire is qualified by color, for example, green sapphire, pink sapphire, and so on. Sapphire is the September birthstone as well as the official anniversary gem for the 5th and 45th years of marriage.

Pearls: A Traditional Wedding Gift for the Bride

Have you ever wondered why so many brides wear a single strand of pearls with their wedding gown? Other than the obvious fact that whites goes well with white, there is another reason. A strand of pearls is a traditional wedding gift. It is a gift that a woman can wear for a lifetime and always look smart and stylish. The warm inner glow of pearls makes every woman look good. Ask to see a strand of pearls and hold them against your arm, or better yet, try them on. There is a reason that pearls always have been — and always will be — a classic favorite among women. So if you know a prospective groom, remind him that a strand of pearls is the perfect — and traditional — wedding gift for the bride.

Giant Fossilized Oysters Found in Peru

Picture this: oysters 12 feet wide and nearly 660 pounds. There were more than 500 such fossilized oysters discovered recently nearly two miles above sea level in the Andes Mountains in Peru. This gives credence to a theory that the ocean covered these mountains some 200 million years ago. It also makes you wonder exactly how large a pearl would grow from such an oyster. This is something special to muse on in the month of June, as its birthgem is pearl. It is interesting to note that although pearl is a renewable gem and harvested by cultured pearl producers, like all the gems on earth, it is as ancient as the earth and life itself. Lustrous pearl makes the perfect gift for all June birthdays and anniversaries.

White-On-White Gives Way to Vibrant Colored Gemstones

While white on white, in the form of diamond-set platinum and white gold, has been setting the standard for jewelry designers, we occasionally see the influence of color. And why not? Vibrant shades of blues, greens, reds and yellows are beautiful, and the design possibilities are endless. It’s true that most of us tend to think of the classic sapphire, ruby and emerald when we think of “colored� gemstones. However, there are many other exciting, and often less expensive, alternatives such as amethyst, citrine, tanzanite, tourmaline, garnet, lapis, onyx, and many others. If you want to complement your wardrobe, choose a gem that either blends or sharply contrasts your favorite colors. For example, if you wear a lot of fashionable grays, a blue topaz or an icy aquamarine might blend well, or a splashy red ruby or bright reddish garnet, would create a stunning contrast.

Wedding Jewelry is Not Just for Newlyweds

If you are celebrating a major anniversary, or if you are simply ready for a change, you might choose to upgrade your diamond to a larger size and better quality. You might even want to add a significant diamond wedding band to wear with your existing engagement ring. You could choose to remount your diamond, or even add other colored gemstones, like sapphire, to add some pizzazz to your look. Consider the new three-diamond anniversary ring for a classic look that is an absolute dazzler. If you are a closet maverick, buck the trend and go for the look that you really like. You can work with platinum, white gold, yellow gold, or a combination of colors. If you are ready for a change, this is a great time to do it. The possibilities are endless.

The Growing Meaning of Mother’s Day

It’s not that Mother’s Day is changing dramatically. For the most part, it is a holiday for recognizing and celebrating our mothers and grandmothers, and making them feel special for the day. However, for many people today, the reality is blended families altered by death and divorce, with step-moms and step-grandmothers, and many more special women in their lives. In fact, the US Census Bureau reports that 12 million children are now being raised in non-traditional families. The traditional nuclear family is no longer the only norm. Whether you plan to honor dear old mom, your grandmother, a favorite aunt, or any of a number of important women in your life, remember that a special gift of jewelry on Mother’s Day is the one gift that can be treasured for a lifetime!

Emerald Green Is the Perfect Gem for May

Emerald was mined for use as a gem as long ago as 2000 BC from Cleopatra’s mines. The Greeks dedicated this beautiful green gem to the goddess Venus. Emerald was also revered in the New World. Ancient Peruvians worshiped an ostrich egg-sized emerald, which they called the Emerald Goddess Umina. After conquering Peru, Spanish explorer Pizarro sent several emeralds of fantastic size and quality back to Spain. Alexander the Great wore a large emerald on his belt, and Charlemagne wore emeralds on his royal crown. Emerald is a gem of the beryl group, along with aquamarine. It is still one of the rarest and most valuable gems on earth, especially in large sizes and top qualities. Its characteristic deep green makes it the perfect birthgem for May.

Graduation Time Marks and End......And a Beginning

May is an exciting month. It marks the end of the school year, and for many that are completing their senior year of school, it is time to graduate. Graduation ceremonies mark both the end of graduate’s formal education and the beginning of a new stage in life. Most graduates are relatively young — either completing their four years of high school or college, or even graduate school. Other graduates are the special adults in our life who have chosen to return to school to improve their lives and learn and grow in a new direction. Whoever the graduate in your life may be, this is the time to show just how proud you are. A lasting gift of fine jewelry is likely to be a special momento that he or she can treasure for a lifetime.

Engagement Rings for Men, a Small but Growing Trend

Diamond rings for men are nothing new, but engagement rings for men are a different story. According to a National Jeweler report, this is a small, but growing trend. As couples wait to marry until they have both established themselves professionally, some women are now buying their fiancées a diamond ring as a gift, after they receive their own. Many look exactly like a diamond-set wedding band, but others are set with one major diamond, general in a bezel mounting. Some are even two-part rings, much like women’s engagement sets, designed to be worn together. When you consider the fact that this is a ring to be worn and cherished for a lifetime, it does make sense to set it with a beautiful and enduring gem such as diamond.

More Women Wearing Right-Hand Diamond Rings

Today many women are opting to wear a major diamond instead of — or in addition to — an engagement ring on the left hand. According to a Professional Jeweler report, right-hand ring-wearers include married women, divorced women, and never-married women. (That about covers it, don’t you think!) The one thing that groups these women together is the desire for a diamond ring apart from one that signifies engagement. Many women are waiting longer to wed and accumulating their own wealth — and their desire for diamonds. Some women inherit a diamond and choose to wear it as is — or to redesign it to better reflect personal tastes. Some married women upgrade their engagement diamond, and keep the original for sentimental reasons — and right hand wear. For whatever reason, you can expect to see many more right-hand diamonds!

Royalty Has to Share the Beauty of Diamond with the Rest of Us!

There was a time when diamonds were only for royalty. Kings and queens wore them on their crowns and coronation regalia, while the common folk were fortunate if they had a ring of iron. Fortunately, times have changed. Diamonds are an accepted and, in some cases, an expected engagement gift. The fortunate few born in April have the advantage of enjoying diamond as their birthgem. Because diamonds are available in such a dazzling variety of sizes, shapes and qualities, it is possible to get a new piece of diamond jewelry every year — without damaging your budget. It’s enough to make a queen of the Middle Ages blush with envy. Whether you celebrate an April birthday or anniversary (or if you just plain love the dazzle and brilliance), this is a great month for diamond!

Opera-Length Necklaces a Predicted Fashion Statement

There was a time that opera-length pearls were meant to be worn to the opera. Nowadays you can wear your opera-length pearls, chains and beads to the opera, the theatre, the cyber café or the mall. They can look as at home on a sweater with jeans as they do on an evening gown. The classic opera strand is anywhere from 28 to 36 inches in length. Other classic lengths include the choker (14-inch to 16-inch), the princess (16-inch to 20-inch), the matinee (20-inch to 26-inch) and the big daddy of them all, the 40-inch rope. The opera length is a dramatic way to accessorize a woman’s wardrobe. Keep in mind that this length is equally dramatic and beautiful in yellow and white gold chain as it is in pearls.

Diamonds from Outer Space

As if diamonds don’t already have enough mystery and allure, scientists are now questioning whether this gem is really out of this world. Conventional theory holds that diamond was formed in molten rock deep within the earth, and got pushed around for a few million years with volcanic activity until it came close enough to the earth’s surface to be discovered by an enterprising prospector. Now some scientists are noting that the carbon in diamond is similar to that found in meteorites — and therefore that at least some diamonds may have once been part of a supernova, a dying star that exploded a few billion years ago and found its way to earth. So the next time you take a look at your ring finger — or shop for diamonds — keep in mind that the dazzling gem you see may have once been a shining star. And in a way it still is.

Magic of Gemstones More than Beauty Deep

It wasn’t until modern times that we’ve chosen gemstones for purely aesthetic reasons. Time was people considered all the spiritual, mystical and medicinal values of each gem. For example, peridot, the birthgem of August, was called the “gem of the sun� because of its brilliance and was believed to banish darkness and drive away night demons. Feeling fatigued and friendless? January’s garnet was said to invigorate and also to symbolize lasting friendship. For more serious ills, consider the sapphire. It was thought of as an antidote to poison. Not only that, it was used to clear up complexions. If plagued by nasty nightmares, consider that the ancients believed coral was the perfect gem for chasing away bad dreams. Even if you choose your gem for its beauty, it is fun to know its “ancient� qualities.

Look Your Age, or Look Younger!

Traditionally, 50-year-old women have had a conservative fashion sensibility. But today’s 50-year-old is a baby boomer, a generation that has been consistent in turning tradition on its ear. Today’s “middle-aged� boomer likes to wear clothes and jewelry that make her feel young and attractive. She is much less concerned with convention or “looking her age.� This could have something to do with celebrity watching. For example, generations X, Y and boomer all watched what Sarah Jessica Parker wore on the recent “Sex in the City� movie, and the fashion-forward among them want to emulate her look, whatever their age. But the “middle-aged� women often have an economic edge. Younger women are likely to buy cutting-edge styles in costume pieces, while the more mature women often get to buy the real thing.

Is It Real Gold? Pure Gold? Or Both?

Sometimes people want to know if their jewelry is “pure� gold or if it is “real� gold. The fact of the matter is that the only “pure� gold is 24kt. A piece of 24kt jewelry is 100% gold. This doesn’t mean that a beautiful piece of 14kt or 18kt gold jewelry isn’t real. It happens that 24kt gold is just a bit too soft for most jewelry wear. And that is why jewelry manufacturers add alloys (other metals, like copper, silver and zinc) to the mix. Eighteen karat gold is 75% gold and 25% alloy, and 14kt gold is 58.3% gold and 41.7% alloy. When shopping for gold jewelry, check the karat marking, along with the manufacturer’s trademark, on the piece. European gold is marked 750 for 18kt and 585 for 14kt.

Aquamarine Dazzles March Birthdays with Beauty of the Sea

Aquamarine, the birthgem of March, was named from the Latin words for “water of the sea.� This makes a lot of sense, as this gem is a beautiful light blue, deep blue or greenish-blue color, much like the sea itself. The deep blue stones are considered the most desirable — and valuable. Aquamarine was valued as a symbol of happiness and everlasting youth by the ancient Egyptians, Greeks and Romans. It belongs to the beryl group of gems, along with emerald. However, aquamarine is less brittle and considerably more durable than emerald, making it a very wearable gem. Blue topaz is sometimes chosen as a less expensive alternative to aquamarine. If the special someone in your life loves ocean cruises, aquamarine jewelry makes a perfect gift as it has traditionally been a talisman of ocean travelers.

Lavish Exhibits Wow Crowds

Paris, the city of opulence, was the perfect host for what was possibly the world’s largest diamond exhibition in history a few years back. Over 400 people attended “Diamonds: in the Heart of the Stars, in the Heart of the Earth, in the Heart of Power� at the Museum of Natural History in that city. Through the Diamond Information Center, the De Beers group loaned 70,000 carats of diamonds, including the 616-carat Dutoitspan, the world’s largest uncut diamond, along with diamond memorabilia, artifacts, and photo archives. A little closer to home, the Gemological Institute of America presented an exhibit, “Giant Gemstones and Colossal Crystals,� at its Carlsbad headquarters, featuring a 164-pound amethyst crystal and a 500,000-carat faceted quartz gemstone, as well as a variety of gem crystals, each weighing more than 100 carats.

Money Can’t Buy Happiness, But Relationships Help

A survey reported in National Jeweler magazine reveals that despite the fact that the per capita real income in the U.S. has increased a whopping 75% in the last thirty years, people report that they are somehow not content or happy. Women were reported to be the least content, despite many years of improvement in educational and employment opportunities. The only good news in the report is that married people are the happiest of all, regardless of perceived affluence. What this survey reveals is that what is most important to people is their close relationships. If you consider yourself to be in a happy and close relationship with someone, celebrate your good fortune. Consider giving him or her a lasting gift of jewelry on your next anniversary or birthday celebration.

Royal Purple Is the Color of February’s Birthgem

Amethyst, February’s birthgem, was a favorite of Catherine the Great of Russia. She sent thousands of workers to the Ural Mountains in search of the gem, and thereafter wore amethysts prominently in her royal jewels. Amethyst also appears in the coronation regalia of England, in the king’s scepter and in the coronet of the Prince of Wales. All this attention and adulation for what is today a relatively affordable gem. Amethyst is the most valuable variety of the quartz family, and is available in large sizes at prices that are very reasonable compared to like-size rubies or sapphires. Named from the Greek word for “not intoxicated,� amethyst was known for keeping its owner sober and was thought to bring success in business, to protect soldiers and hunters, and to assure victory.

Jewelry Heist Fails to Make the Record Books

Just like a scene from Mission Impossible, several years ago a group of thieves crashed into London’s Millennium Dome with a bulldozer, throwing smoke bombs for cover. Their goal: $500 million worth of diamonds, including the 203-ct De Beers Millennium Star and 11 large diamonds of a distinctive, vivid blue color. Their plan: hit quickly and zoom off in a getaway boat parked on the River Thames. Because of a tip-off, Scotland Yard was prepared, and all 12 thieves were captured without firing a single shot. To provide security for your family jewels, store your least-worn and most valuable pieces in a bank safety deposit box. Also store your favorite pieces at home in an unlikely place, preferably not in your master bedroom. And by all means, keep your jewelry appraisal up to date.

Shop for Yourself When the Holiday Rush is Over

Now that most of the holiday rush is over, this is a good time to think about yourself for a change. If you didn’t get the gift that you really wanted (or worse yet, if you didn’t get any jewelry at all!), this is a great time to shop and browse to your heart’s content. There’s no need to hurry. All your shopping is done. Take your time to view whatever strikes your fancy. Let yourself be frivolous and think about on a few pieces that aren’t your “regular� style, or that you think might be out of your price range. You never know when you might find a new look that is just right for you. Happy new year!

An Ounce of Prevention Prevents Gemstone Loss

Most of us check our smoke-detector batteries once a year. But we don’t think of having our jewelry checked for wear and tear until we hear a stone rattling around in its setting. Or worse yet, when we notice a gemstone is missing! Unless you keep your jewelry items in a jewelry case or safety deposit box, they are exposed to the daily stresses of wear.

If you can hear your gemstone rattling, take your ring off immediately. Put it in an envelope or resealable plastic bag and take it to your jeweler for repair. Less obvious signs of wear, such as thinning prongs and worn catches usually require the trained eye of a jewelry professional. If you wear your rings daily, have them checked once a year just to be on the safe side.