So, you think you can dance?

Most women would love to be swept out onto the dance floor by someone who is capable of "leading." An amazing gift sure to impress is couple's dance lessons! This gift not only shows her that you want to spend quality time with her, but it also demonstrates your willingness to step out of your comfort zone to make her feel special. It will also make you the center of attention at any wedding or party you attend. It's an all around great idea. This is an exceptionally good thing to do right before you get married, so that your first dance as a couple, when all of your family and friends are watching, will be fantastic.

Know your mate

Some women have no desire to be the center of attention, and would actually be embarrassed if forced to dance in public. If your girl is one of these, DON'T GIVE THIS GIFT!!!! If she loves to dance and has dropped hints that she would love to learn how to do so as a couple, this gift is perfect for you.

Determine a time commitment

Dance lessons can be time consuming, but you get to determine just how consuming. Research and find out what your options are. Some studios have you come 2 or 3 times a week and require you to attend a social event to practice your "moves", others only meet once a week and leave it up to you to practice. HINT: The more time you put into it, the better the two of you will be. Determine what you're willing to give, and then whether it's every day or once a week, give it your all. Make sure that the clientele of the studio you choose is within the same basic age bracket as you are. You don't want to be completely out of your element in age, talent, and company. Set up childcare ahead of time (if applicable) so that this isn't a source of stress for her, but instead a complete luxury.

Go all out

Buy her a "dancing dress" and some great shoes (sensible but sexy ones that she is able to dance in) so that she can feel sexy and confident in this new endeavor. Do not grumble or complain about the lessons once they start. Remember, you gave her this gift, and part of the gift is your willingness to participate, and at least fake interest and enthusiasm. Your reluctance will ruin an otherwise terrific idea. Keep your opinions to yourself!! The more positive you are about this activity, the more she will enjoy the gift and want to thank you for it. In the long run, you are only helping yourself by being a willing party. Make every lesson a date ... the more special she feels, the more she will look forward to being in your arms.

Take her out

Once you have learned some "moves" take her somewhere that she can show them off. Go out on a date to a venue that lends itself real dancing. (not the bump and grind stuff at the clu ... those are an entirely different type of dance lesson) Weddings are a great time to show off moves. (whether your own is on the horizon, or you have lots of friends with upcoming weddings) You are sure to be the talk of the town.

Invite friends

There is safety in numbers. Plan to do the lessons with another couple. This will make it much less painful for both parties. Choose the other couple wisely though. You need to be able to trust them not to make fun of your trail and error period.

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